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Of course, naturally, we will ...</title><content type='html'>I agree with Irish. Of course, naturally, we will all have different opinions on this, but I do have a few trusted bloggers whose opinion I wholly trust. That doesn&amp;#39;t mean that I&amp;#39;ll cross the book of the list right away if they didn&amp;#39;t like it because I&amp;#39;ll research into the book to get more of an idea of others opinion on it. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As a blogger I count on those bloggers to be honest in their reviews. And so if they just said they weren&amp;#39;t to fond of it without explanation it would leave me scratching my head as to why. I think you also owe your readers an explanation and so it&amp;#39;s important for me, personally, that if I don&amp;#39;t like a book I explain why. Of course author bashing is unacceptable since we are reviewing the book but I wouldn&amp;#39;t be reading the review in the first place if they did get out of line.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And as strange as it may sound. When I read a review from a trusted blogger who I know I have VERY similar taste to who reviews a book they didn&amp;#39;t like. You take into account what they weren&amp;#39;t fond of and see for yourself how you would feel about those things. And it&amp;#39;s from that perspective that you see that the book isn&amp;#39;t for you.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2544255827767988873/7103139162301905427/comments/default/5380355777358381829'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2544255827767988873/7103139162301905427/comments/default/5380355777358381829'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.thealleyofbooks.com/2011/06/in-which-i-rant-about-things-that.html?showComment=1313074512027#c5380355777358381829' title=''/><author><name>Blueicegal ♥</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09146180332261903579</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_sE02h0IA634/S7di36Ndu-I/AAAAAAAAAZE/NFT_nwCQhtU/S220/love-sick1.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.thealleyofbooks.com/2011/06/in-which-i-rant-about-things-that.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2544255827767988873.post-7103139162301905427' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2544255827767988873/posts/default/7103139162301905427' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1572600748'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2544255827767988873.post-8016887592412757664</id><published>2011-08-05T01:21:07.746-04:00</published><updated>2011-08-05T01:21:07.746-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Thanks, Mitali! I think there is a way for people ...</title><content type='html'>Thanks, Mitali! I think there is a way for people to express dislike without spitting loaded words at an author who has put a lot of work into writing something--and who was brave enough to try to share it with others! Sure, they&amp;#39;ve got to learn to take some criticism, and reviewers should be honest (or lose credibility for poor recommendations) but there&amp;#39;s criticism and then there&amp;#39;s bashing. I&amp;#39;ve actually unfriended someone on goodreads for how much they bashed books (even ones I didn&amp;#39;t like, though what they said about the books I loved already made me cringe)... and she&amp;#39;s a pretty influential person on GR. To avoid bashing her myself, she shall remain nameless :D but she has lost *all* her credibility with me.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2544255827767988873/7103139162301905427/comments/default/8016887592412757664'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2544255827767988873/7103139162301905427/comments/default/8016887592412757664'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.thealleyofbooks.com/2011/06/in-which-i-rant-about-things-that.html?showComment=1312521667746#c8016887592412757664' title=''/><author><name>Read Now Sleep Later</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00492709176141379178</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='10502819605845285995'/><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-X6GJ8AaVie4/TYbk8ZHTwOI/AAAAAAAABOM/-G9kZDTukpE/s220/flatallittle.png'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.thealleyofbooks.com/2011/06/in-which-i-rant-about-things-that.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2544255827767988873.post-7103139162301905427' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2544255827767988873/posts/default/7103139162301905427' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-201481551'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2544255827767988873.post-2762038725797450756</id><published>2011-07-18T10:41:44.368-04:00</published><updated>2011-07-18T10:41:44.368-04:00</updated><title type='text'>well said, Mitali ;)</title><content type='html'>well said, Mitali ;)</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2544255827767988873/7103139162301905427/comments/default/2762038725797450756'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2544255827767988873/7103139162301905427/comments/default/2762038725797450756'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.thealleyofbooks.com/2011/06/in-which-i-rant-about-things-that.html?showComment=1311000104368#c2762038725797450756' title=''/><author><name>The Book Muncher</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02892275572700693142</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_CKB1VGLaSJA/SkLlRHkOmCI/AAAAAAAACEM/eR5NQNfAnPY/S220/new+muncher+icon+small.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.thealleyofbooks.com/2011/06/in-which-i-rant-about-things-that.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2544255827767988873.post-7103139162301905427' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2544255827767988873/posts/default/7103139162301905427' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1671760003'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2544255827767988873.post-3049343451224765121</id><published>2011-06-21T09:12:12.512-04:00</published><updated>2011-06-21T09:12:12.512-04:00</updated><title type='text'>For what its worth, I like to see negative reviews...</title><content type='html'>For what its worth, I like to see negative reviews on blogs. When I read a blog I like to see rave reviews and ones that are more negative. With both types I want to see that breakdown of why the reader felt like they did. That is how I start to match my reading tastes to theirs. If the reviewer didn&amp;#39;t like X, Y and Z for X, Y and Z reasons and knowing my thoughts on those issues then I can say that I probably won&amp;#39;t like the book for the same reasons. Why should I go out and still read that book if I am pretty certain that I won&amp;#39;t like it? When that time could be spent reading a book that I think that I&amp;#39;ll like. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So yes I&amp;#39;ll read a negative post from a blogger I trust and if they don&amp;#39;t like it then I might say, &amp;quot;Thanks for the review I&amp;#39;ll give this one a pass&amp;quot;. In the end that will save the author another negative review if I had read it, disliked it and then posted about it. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Again this is from blogs I read and trust. If a blog is new to me and I don&amp;#39;t really know how our tastes match up then yes I&amp;#39;ll probably still give the book a go. But if there is that established history of my liking (or not liking as the case may be) the same books as the blogger then I will just take their word for it. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I know that the publishing process is long and that authors work hard and have strong feelings for their books. But as readers, we can&amp;#39;t like everything that is put out there. The world would be a very boring place if we did. So as long as the reviewer isn&amp;#39;t attacking the author in their post and writing a well thought out review of what didn&amp;#39;t work for them then I am fine with that. I like to see that. When blogs only review positiviely then I tend to stop reading them. It just makes it more difficult for me to match up my tastes to that blogger...and I go to the blogs to get recommendations of the books that are worthy of my time. I don&amp;#39;t have a lot of free time so I don&amp;#39;t want to waste it on a book that I think is going to suck. There are so many excellent books out there that I feel that is where my focus should be. And with so many options to choose from I need other bloggers to write their honest thoughts to help me sift through all the possibilities out there.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2544255827767988873/7103139162301905427/comments/default/3049343451224765121'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2544255827767988873/7103139162301905427/comments/default/3049343451224765121'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.thealleyofbooks.com/2011/06/in-which-i-rant-about-things-that.html?showComment=1308661932512#c3049343451224765121' title=''/><author><name>Irish</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08339410911505302929</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1083/867261726_29bce98f84_t.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.thealleyofbooks.com/2011/06/in-which-i-rant-about-things-that.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2544255827767988873.post-7103139162301905427' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2544255827767988873/posts/default/7103139162301905427' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-715088692'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2544255827767988873.post-7228783322283849108</id><published>2011-06-21T08:38:17.604-04:00</published><updated>2011-06-21T08:38:17.604-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Beautifully said! And it applies to writers talkin...</title><content type='html'>Beautifully said! And it applies to writers talking about other writers. Don&amp;#39;t trash the community you want to embrace you. Be honest, but tempered.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2544255827767988873/7103139162301905427/comments/default/7228783322283849108'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2544255827767988873/7103139162301905427/comments/default/7228783322283849108'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.thealleyofbooks.com/2011/06/in-which-i-rant-about-things-that.html?showComment=1308659897604#c7228783322283849108' title=''/><author><name>Charlotte Bennardo</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13371105720422860639</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-MlCUwDJjhQM/TXALDav9RRI/AAAAAAAAAAQ/vVh8bTO5NtQ/s220/authorpic2.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.thealleyofbooks.com/2011/06/in-which-i-rant-about-things-that.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2544255827767988873.post-7103139162301905427' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2544255827767988873/posts/default/7103139162301905427' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1599742731'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2544255827767988873.post-7176285975379451208</id><published>2011-06-21T06:51:30.949-04:00</published><updated>2011-06-21T06:51:30.949-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Nice post Mitali! I have a problem with this too. ...</title><content type='html'>Nice post Mitali! I have a problem with this too. I don&amp;#39;t mind if people say why they didn&amp;#39;t like it (though paragraphs upon paragraphs do get redundant). What I hate is when a reviewer starts to bash the author and everything they stand for. There are a lot of mean, rude and immature bloggers out there. I always try to add &amp;quot;if you like... you may like this&amp;quot; because feel the same way that you do and don&amp;#39;t want to take a way a book from someone who may like it.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2544255827767988873/7103139162301905427/comments/default/7176285975379451208'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2544255827767988873/7103139162301905427/comments/default/7176285975379451208'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.thealleyofbooks.com/2011/06/in-which-i-rant-about-things-that.html?showComment=1308653490949#c7176285975379451208' title=''/><author><name>Britta</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13870318255296476906</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_aWO1w_-DQ9o/TOlUl31TqCI/AAAAAAAAAJk/Ef7Fu88pLqo/S220/logo.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.thealleyofbooks.com/2011/06/in-which-i-rant-about-things-that.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2544255827767988873.post-7103139162301905427' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2544255827767988873/posts/default/7103139162301905427' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1420111239'/></entry></feed>
